Late Night.

I just finished watching “Just Go With It” starring Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler. I found it entertaining. It’s about this plastic surgeon (Adam Sandler) who posed as a married man every Friday night to hook up with some women; however, the only way he would get them is by making up this fake wife who beats him and treats him like dirt. Then, one day at a friends party he meets this pretty blonde girl who he ends up having this interest with. After a night together on the beach the girl asks for his number, and he tells her to get his business card in his pant pocket. She finds a ring there and that’s where everything began. He created this fake family story about him getting a divorce, but the girl insists on meeting this ‘wife’ of his. So his assistant (Jennifer Aniston) poses as his soon to be ex-wife. And that’s where I will stop talking about the movie. I will say this though, although my husband was on his computer working, he did manage to take a few peeks during the movie and during one scene he managed to say “Jennifer Aniston is so fucking hot.”  Maybe that’s a bit of an incentive to watch the movie. Hhh…

Here’s the link to the trailer.

After the movie, habi was talking to me about how every guy is different and this difference is what makes them want certain types of girls. This idea came from him listening to a conversation remix from the Backstreet Boys on youtube. Anyways, he gave me this example: One guy sang about him wanting to wake up in the morning to make breakfast, lunch and dinner for her. Another guy sang about him wanting the girl to do just that. Every guy because they’re all different is a perfect match for any girl out there. So when a guy says “your beautiful” or “you’re the one for me,” he’s not just saying that, it’s because you’re really beautiful to him and you’re really the one.

Please do not ignore his efforts. A true man, a real man, would do his best to make you feel like your the queen of the world and love you from the bottom of his heart. Of course guys do make stupid mistakes, and yeah it hurts. And you know what? Girls makes mistakes too, and guys end up getting hurt as well. The best quote I’ve heard and it’s from the movie “The Vow,” Rita Thorton says “I chose to stay with him for all the things he’s done right; not the things he’s done wrong. I chose to forgive him.” It sums up everything in that one sentence. Go back and list all the good and the bad of that person. Then cook a good dinner and when you’re both almost done tell him/her that you want to play a game. Tell him/her that this game needs both people to look deeply in each other’s eye and say all the things that you love about him/her. Try the game and be serious about it as well! Don’t overlook what he/she has done for you. They might be little, but it really does add up. Try it one day. It might just work.

I know I went a little off topic there, but I wanted to share this with everyone. I know that there is a lot of people that is having a difficult time in their relationship. Take a minute each day and think of at least one thing that the one person you love has done for you that made you smile. Sometimes, I see that movies and television can impair the realities of relationships and create this ‘image’ of how a relationship should be. But it’s not like that. When two different people come together to be a couple, of course their relationships are also going to be different. It’s just you and him/her and no one else really does matter. Don’t let anything take what you have away.

Love, real true love, is too precious to give away so easily. And trust me, when people see what you have, they DO become jealous and they will do their best to take it away from you. So fight for it!

***The best thing about being in Love is being able to live life with someone by your side, supporting you regardless of how difficult the task is at hand. ***

Good Luck Habi! You’re doing great!